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PostSubject: Fed up waiting    Thu Sep 01, 2011 2:47 am

Well I'm on day 31 now and no af, but I don't want to test as I don't want to be disappointed again, I'm going to wait until the weekend and if nothing has happened by then I'll do one. It's driving me mad waiting for AF to arrive. I have no pregnancy symptoms at all, so I don't think I am. Wish my periods wouldn't mess around while I'm ttc
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PostSubject: Re: Fed up waiting    Thu Sep 01, 2011 3:22 am

Poor you. Hope it is your bfp and you're left waiting for 9 months!
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PostSubject: Re: Fed up waiting    Thu Sep 01, 2011 3:25 am

Aww hun I really hope you get your bfp. How long is your cycle normally?

I didn't have any symptoms with this pregnancy, I don't even know why I tested, just saw the test in the drawer and did it. So could be the same for you.

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PostSubject: Re: Fed up waiting    Thu Sep 01, 2011 3:36 am

I haven't had any symptoms with my two. Major finger crossing for you xx
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PostSubject: Re: Fed up waiting    Thu Sep 01, 2011 3:37 am

I really hope you are. Like Michelle this time id no symptoms (well not until a week after BFP), I just tested randomly and got the shock of my life! If you can hold out to weekend well done - iv no patience and would prob test too early every month when Af due.

Everything crossed for you!
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PostSubject: Re: Fed up waiting    Thu Sep 01, 2011 3:47 am

yeh I wouldn't be able to wait either!!

but fingers crossed for you hun x
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PostSubject: Re: Fed up waiting    Thu Sep 01, 2011 3:51 am

I had no symptoms with jaiden I only tested coz i was a day l8 Smile Hope its ur turn hun XX
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PostSubject: Re: Fed up waiting    Thu Sep 01, 2011 6:29 am

Thanks, I don't know how I'm waiting either tbh, if I had a test in the house in would do it but i haven't so am holding off. Shell my cycle is usually between 28-30 days but it had on occasion been as long as 33 which is why I'm trying not to get my hopes up yet x
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PostSubject: Re: Fed up waiting    Thu Sep 01, 2011 6:36 am

I've everything crossed for you Smile xxx
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PostSubject: Re: Fed up waiting    Thu Sep 01, 2011 7:38 am

Good luck Mandy! I've got everything crossed for a bfp!! X
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PostSubject: Re: Fed up waiting    Thu Sep 01, 2011 7:52 am

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Thanks, I don't know how I'm waiting either tbh, if I had a test in the house in would do it but i haven't so am holding off. Shell my cycle is usually between 28-30 days but it had on occasion been as long as 33 which is why I'm trying not to get my hopes up yet x

It's annoying when cycle can be out by few days as even if you're aware it can be out you still get hopes up a bit.

I've got my fingers crossed for youx
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PostSubject: Re: Fed up waiting    Thu Sep 01, 2011 7:59 am

Really hope this is your month Mandy, have got everything crossed for you xx
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PostSubject: Re: Fed up waiting    Thu Sep 01, 2011 10:05 am

Good luck Mandy, I've got everything crossed for you Very Happy
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PostSubject: Re: Fed up waiting    Thu Sep 01, 2011 10:17 am

good luck mandy, i really really hope this is your month xx
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PostSubject: Re: Fed up waiting    Thu Sep 01, 2011 11:18 pm

well I gave in and tested and it was negative. Looks like my body is messing with me.thanks for your messages of support but I'm not sure how much longer I can do this x
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PostSubject: Re: Fed up waiting    Thu Sep 01, 2011 11:38 pm

Aww poo! It's so hard isn't it.
Me and oh had a long convo the other night and decided what will be will be. With only one tube I really don't want to be stressing every month, I just can't to with the stress of it all.

I'm always here for support if you need it Hun hugz xxx
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PostSubject: Re: Fed up waiting    Fri Sep 02, 2011 12:13 am

Thanks Zee, it's turning me into a miserable old bag. As much as I try not to think about it, I can't help it, every month I get my hopes up and very month I'm disappointed. I've been off the pill for 18 months now and with 6 years trying before Chloe I'm not sure I can keep in being disappointed. Going to talk to OH tonight but I think I'm going to all it a day and just concentrate on Chloe
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PostSubject: Re: Fed up waiting    Fri Sep 02, 2011 1:06 am

Don't give up.


But I do think you need a break. I would not bother with contraceptives, take off your ticker (i remember taking mine off as it drove me mad with the days and dates and reminders) and dont put so much pressure on yourself.

maybe see your gp too. see if you can get the ball rolling on things.

and have fun with sex again, when you want it and not on a time scale or calender and set days.

i'm only a text away and you can always call me i'll always listen xx
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PostSubject: Re: Fed up waiting    Fri Sep 02, 2011 4:33 am

Oh mandy, just keep trying but take the pressre of yourself.



With my second child and with Ellie it took years to conceive (hence why I'm sooo old with Ellie now) but it will happen. I help conceiving my second child (clomid) and got pg soon after. With Ellie I didnt get help but we agreed to stop trying when I reached 40!!! Then a one carless day at 41 I conceived her and we had deffo stopped trying as we'd booked our wedding and everything in Cyprus for the June! I ended up an embarassed pregnant 41 year old bride haha
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PostSubject: Re: Fed up waiting    Fri Sep 02, 2011 4:52 am

That's exactly how I felt and I just couldn't put us through it any longer.. The month that followed I got pg but it just wasnt ment to be Sad

I really really think you should go to your Dr's this time Mandy, it took you a long time with Chloe and you have been trying a fair while with this one. The NHS website states that after 2 yrs and no success they will offer help, and if you are over 30 yrs old they will help out after 1yr of trying. I know this cos I told my friend to do the same thing. She was/is in the same situation as you are. Please go have a chat cos I know how it takes over your life ttc and I don't want you feeling like that Sad hugz
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PostSubject: Re: Fed up waiting    Fri Sep 02, 2011 6:08 am

Awww Mandy i am sorry you didnt get your BFP, i would definitely go see your GP like the others suggested, massive hugs chick hugz




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PostSubject: Re: Fed up waiting    Fri Sep 02, 2011 7:21 am

Thanks, I'm probably not in the best frame of mind today s I'm full of cold and feeling rubbish anyway.

In all honesty I'm reluctant to see my gp, going through fertility treatment And IVF with my ex put our relationship under so much pressure it was a major factor in us splitting u
, also if we got as far as IVF we wouldn't get it on NHS as we already have a child.

In think you're right Kelly, I need to take a break from it. I'm exhausted from thinking about it

Thanks for all your lovely support, I don't know what I'd do without you lot xxx
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